....keep finding themselves justifying to other people why they are having a baby when they are skint? Im getting quite sick of it. Its not really anybodys concern, and WTF do they expect me to say "oh no your right, I hadnt thought about it. Oh well I best get rid of it then" F*** off! Im only going to be skint till next spring anyway its not a big deal. I find it so rude. My OHs friend is the worst and I hear him on the phone talking about it and I get really pissed off. I could also hear him explaining why he has gone back to uni. I know his friend was saying he should have got a job instead, but we have decided that he is a stay at home dad because I can earn more money with my new job next spring than he could so it makes sense. Why do we have to explain thats what we have decided to do because its best for us. If one more person tells us that he should be getting a job instead of going to make to uni I am likely to punch them in the face.