Anyone else's husband having another baby to please his wife?

[kirski]

A little of topic, So as the title says really, I have 3 beautiful children and I would love 1 more but my husband says he thinks we have enough but he would have another for me?

 

[cupcake23]

Kinda... I decided in Dec that I wanted another baby... Dh didn't say much, stopped the mini pill in January and he just let me get on with it, got pregnant in February but ended up having a mc, dh decided that it was a good time to tell me he didn't really want another child, was happy with the 2 we have and the life we have, I was devastated when he told me, I was still grieving for the child I lost but he wanted to honest and I respect him for that.

Since then we have decided to have another but it was a mutual decision this time round, but I know he is really doing it for me and I love him so much for it.

 

[BunnyN]

It was mostly me who wanted #2 and #3 but OH didnt object. He thought maybe we should wait a bit longer but I put him in charge of birth control and we didnt use it since, lol.

 

[Stargazer33]

Hi Just wanted to pop by and say I'm in the same situation as you only my husband think we have enough with our 3 boys and he is hard to convince.... I want one more bundle and I don't know what to tell my hubby anymore.... I have been very down and depressed since January because I really want one more and I don't think hubby really understand how I feel... trying to explain to a guy that my heart is not fulfilled yet is like trying to tell your kid no you can't have ice cream today...
Those times we have had sex every cycle I pray I will become pregnant but so far no luck.... I'm starting to wonder if I can't have more kids? I have never had problems getting pregnant until now after I stopped my depo shot in March 2015.... stupid shot...
I'm regular every month and I do feel ovulation pains so I don't know what could be wrong?

 

[kirski]

Sorry for your loss cupcake I hope it happens soon.

Good idea on the birth control bunny, maybe I should try that lol

Stargazer how old are your 3 boys, I have 2 boys 8 and 5 this month and a little girl 25 months. I too have the feeling I'm not finished I get sad when I think about not experiencing the magic of being pregnant again.

 

[Stargazer33]

Kirski my son's are 8, 6 and 3 I thought this cycle I was pregnant but started bleeding thickening after having super faint lines on several clearblues... But my bleeding is very ligth and it seems to subsided already? I don't know yet what's going on, I have to just wait and see in a couple of days... I keep hoping every cycle for a miracle and that I would get pregnant but so far nothing and since we are not really trying my chances get slimmer if only bedding once around my ovulation time..

 

[kirski]

Stargazer could it be implantation bleeding, fingers crossed for you. Me and my Dh had a really good talk last night and although he thinks are family is perfect the way it is (and so do I lol) he's willing to have another baby I just don't like the whole shall we have a baby resting on my shoulders. We're going on holiday soon maybe we will have a holiday baby. I can't really Ntnp because I know exactly when I'm ovulating I get terrible soreness in my ovarys and feel nauseous along with the ewcm haha we don't use contraception he just relies on me to know when not to lol