When we first started TTC I was so excited I told a number of friends and family. As the months have passed (now at TTC cycle eight) I find some conversations become awkward - they are wondering if we are having problems and don't really know what to say (not many of my friends have TTC or been pg - and as with me before I started TTC - don't realise it wouldn't necessarily happen immediatly!). One friend even cautiously asked me if we are still TTC.... I then tend to get defensive and start belting out stats on how it can take up to 1 year and still be considered "normal", and the female fertile period every month is actually so short etc. (at which point my sister called me "spermzilla" for all my knowledge on TTC lol) I kinda wish I had kept our decision to TTC to ourselves as I actually feel more pressure..... Any thoughts on this....?