aidensxmomma
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I feel a little left out or like I don't fit in.
I have a 6 year old son, a 5 year old daughter, and an angel daughter who would be 3 next month. I lost my youngest to SIDS when she was 3 1/2 months old.
So I'm technically WTT #4. However, I'll be going from two children to three when I eventually have another instead of going from three to four, like most women who are wtt#4. So I don't feel like I really fit in with the women who are going to be trying for their fourth.
But at the same time, I don't feel like I fit in with the ladies who are WTT #3 either, since I did already have my third and did get three wonderful months with her. I feel like if I say that I'm WTT #3, I am also "forgetting" about my daughter, which obviously isn't the case.
So I feel kind of like I don't fit in with any group.
Can anyone else relate?
*And just to be clear, no one has made me feel left out or anything. This is an amazing forum with wonderful ladies on it. *
I have a 6 year old son, a 5 year old daughter, and an angel daughter who would be 3 next month. I lost my youngest to SIDS when she was 3 1/2 months old.
So I'm technically WTT #4. However, I'll be going from two children to three when I eventually have another instead of going from three to four, like most women who are wtt#4. So I don't feel like I really fit in with the women who are going to be trying for their fourth.
But at the same time, I don't feel like I fit in with the ladies who are WTT #3 either, since I did already have my third and did get three wonderful months with her. I feel like if I say that I'm WTT #3, I am also "forgetting" about my daughter, which obviously isn't the case.
So I feel kind of like I don't fit in with any group.
Can anyone else relate?
*And just to be clear, no one has made me feel left out or anything. This is an amazing forum with wonderful ladies on it. *