My best friend is pregnant now too, we had our boys young at 22, so now at 26 our friends are starting to have babies so on the one hand it's nice we're not "alone" but now I'm sad I could be "done". Plus she's having a girl which is a little salt in the wound lol (not that I would change my boys for anything of course).
I love my boys to pieces but am desperate to have a little girl so that's my biggest fear too, I'd hate to watch all of my friends go on to have little girls. In fact the only reason I wouldn't try for another is the thought of having another boy and not a girl makes me feel genuinely quite sad as I know that would be it then, I know that sounds awful though
After having DS1, I thought I wouldn't want a 3rd if our 2nd child was a boy, because I'd be too scared/upset about having 3 boys and no girls. Now that I have DS2 though, I still want a 3rd and I'm actually not as worried about having a 3rd boy. I suppose it's because I love my boys to bits and boys are all I know, so I know I'd love a 3rd boy just as much. Of course, a little girl would be lovely, but I'm not desperate for a girl like I thought I might be.
I've had that thought too - boys are all I know so looking after a girl would be so different. It would also be so much more expensive buying all new clothes, toys, pink things etc. I think my biggest fear is that the men I know including my oh aren't that close to their mums whilst my mum is one of my best friends and I don't want my boys to grow up and for us not to have a proper relationship
Congratulations on your new arrival by the way, I missed how young he was the first time I read your post