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Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive Over 35' started by redbarrell, Jun 8, 2011.

  1. redbarrell

    redbarrell Well-Known Member

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    Hello, I am new on here and am looking for some ladies in a similar situtation to bounce stuff off.

    I have a 14 year old daughter and a fairly new husband (4 years), we have been ttc for the past three years with some upsets on the way, a m/c in july 2009 at 16 weeks:sadangel: and another in june 2010 at 7 weeks :cry:, I alternate my months of checking with opks as I find it just too stressful otherwise, I am 36 and my dh? is 37

    I am currently cd9 and have had low down uncomfortable pressure for the last 4 days so pretty I will O in next few days

    Just wanted to know if anyone is the same place as me as would be good to share some info
     
  2. Bubba3

    Bubba3 Well-Known Member

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    Hi red barrel , I'm a wee bit behind , on day 5 but love to go through it with you. We're on cycle 8 , have first fertility specialist appoint later this month. Day 21 test looks promising just need to get on top of anemia , husbands sa gets in tomorrow . My plan this month is to use all the big buns but basically wear out my hubby and try too catch that egg. I'm temping for the first time and using a fertility saliva scope but only second month so still getting used to it. Will buy horrendously expensive ( live in asia ) opk this month just to see. I'm 36 and lucky enough to have a reg cycle.
    :haha:So funny the info you share , but that's why were here , ups and downs . Let's make babies :hugs:
     
  3. Natsby

    Natsby Luca born 9-11-2012

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    Hi and welcome, So sorry for your losses, you will find lots of support here and people in similar situations. I have had two mc too, but I´m a little older than you, 38 and don´t have any children at all yet. We have been trying for 20 months now and I´m going to the hospital soon to see if they can help us, but I don´t hold out much hope, they are pretty useless at our local hospital. Still fingers crossed I won´t need it.
    Good luck and see you around the forum.
     
  4. redbarrell

    redbarrell Well-Known Member

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    Its nice to here from other people, I have bought a boots own OPK this month and have started temping but its so stressful and dh works long days so by the time he gets home the last thing he wants is to bd! Bubba3 -wow asia, are they really that expensive? I have asked to be referred to a fertility clinic but i'm over 35 and already have one child so they are reluctant! Natsby - If you've never had a child you should be able to see someone for some advice and help, its very frustrating.

    Good to have some people to chat with, dh is a super star but he does get a bit fed of me taking temps and talking cm...:haha:

    Fingers firmly crossed xx
     
  5. Natsby

    Natsby Luca born 9-11-2012

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    Yeah mine doesn´t like me temping either and I don´t tell him how often I poas in case he says I´m obsessing, which of course i am!
    I am trying to see a specialist, but I live in Spain and they don´t have the same policy here. My last doctor told me he would help after 3 or 4 mc not before!! But I have a student who is a nurse and she is trying to get me in through the back door to see someone so fingers crossed. i´m too old to wait for 4 mc, I´d be in my 50´s at this rate!
    I hope you don´t need intervention anyway and you get you bfp soon.
     
  6. Beccasmum

    Beccasmum Active Member

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    Hi redbarrell. I'm new on here as well. Ladies on here are superstars so you're in good company!

    So sorry for your losses. I'm 36 and have a 6 year old daughter. Been TTC for about 18 months now. Lost a sticky bean in April but have convinced myself it was probably for the best :cry:

    I think even though we are slightly the wrong side of 35 (only just!) it will happen. Just keep popping the folic!:hugs:
     
  7. lexus15

    lexus15 Praying for 1 more

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    Hi & welcome :flower:

    I'm 36 with a 16 year old & have been ttc #2 for over 3 years now. I haven't had a whiff of a BFP in all of this time & just hope that I can still fall pregnant. [-o<[-o<

    OH & I have started seeing a FS who's done blood tests for us both, he explained that if we need treatment we will have to fund it ourselves as OH is my child's father.

    All the women on BnB are lovely & most can relate to how you are feeling. Gd luck & fingers cross that we all get our BFP's on this thread:baby::thumbup:

    :hugs:
     

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