RobenR
Mum to miracle girl & boy
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Just two months ago, my husband and I lost our little girl at 18w5d due to a chromosomal abnormality (Turners Syndrome). The odds of it happening again are 1/2500 but that isn't reassuring.
Blessedly we are pregnant again, but now both absolutely terrified we'll have another m/c. Right now, I'm worried I'll have a chemical, or when we go for our first ultrasound that there won't be a heartbeat, or that I'll lose the baby in the first few months.
Am I being overly irrational over the fear of losing another baby? Are these fears normal? Is there anyone who is pregnant after a loss who can shed some light or ease my mind? I don't want to go through another pregnancy scared out my wits (the doctors gave us nothing but bad news through the entire last pregnancy).
I'm still not fully believing that we are pregnant again either...
Advice?
Blessedly we are pregnant again, but now both absolutely terrified we'll have another m/c. Right now, I'm worried I'll have a chemical, or when we go for our first ultrasound that there won't be a heartbeat, or that I'll lose the baby in the first few months.
Am I being overly irrational over the fear of losing another baby? Are these fears normal? Is there anyone who is pregnant after a loss who can shed some light or ease my mind? I don't want to go through another pregnancy scared out my wits (the doctors gave us nothing but bad news through the entire last pregnancy).
I'm still not fully believing that we are pregnant again either...
Advice?