PrettyFlowers
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.I had a small tear during my drug free birth. It was no big deal. You don't realize it's happening at the time and I healed completely back to normal within weeks if you are worried about it, I would look into natural birth and try to get a knowledgable midwife. The thing is, you are very unlikely to tear if you push when your body tells you to and don't try to rush the pushing stage. Everytime the baby moves out a little, he stretches you naturally then he'll pop back up. If you allow this process to happen naturally its very unlikely you'll tear. I think I pushed too much (even when my body was telling me to rest) which is why I had a small tear. Hope this helped welcome and congrats on having a ttc date!
I tore, didn't feel it at the time. Had to get sewn up and it was sore to sit for a while. No pain peeing though and although uncomfortable during sex (still) I live with it. Not worried about giving birth again.