I'm 14+1 weeks and trying to decide whether or not to try and find out if we are having a girl or a boy at or next scan (7th March ) I've always said I'd want it to be a surprise but now that I'm actually pregnant I think I want to know and my OH doesn't. He says he doesn't want to find out because it doesn't matter which it is, I agree but think that finding out will make it easier to get everything prepared. So are you going to find out whether your bump is pink or blue? Or have you already had your scan and found out? Or are you waiting until LO arrives?