My husband and I had been trying for over a year with no success and finally we'd gotten in to see a RE at a fertility clinic which was really great news and made me happy! Then in the middle of my investigative cycle in which I didn't seem to be ovulating so I was already down and depressed, his brother emails us (I really hate my husbands brother because he and his wife are annoying, judgemental and the kind of people that push their beliefs on others) with pictures from their 6 week and 12 week sonos..........
I was crazy upset of course and cried and screamed and really hated that they had gotten pregnant and I deleted all pictures they sent and said horrible stuff. I know at the time I was really just upset because of our troubles but I was also really mad that my husband seemed to think it was ok to show me the pictures sounding so happy for them and expecting me to be as well when he knows that they have treated me like crap and when we had had so many struggles trying to get pregnant ourselves to the point it felt like it would never happen! I got pregnant my next cycle after that and now I am 13 almost 14 weeks and she is 26 so I'm basically a trimester behind.
Still don't like them though! At least I have my in laws on my side (he and his wife don't talk to my in laws and stuff because they claim they are horrible people, something which neither my husband nor his sister (which happens to be twins with my brother in law) agree with at all. And because they aren't involved in that pregnant they are doting all attention on mine which is great.
Why can't families be less complicated though?
Wishing you both a healthy 9 months.
do you get on well? I think it would be nice to have someone to talk to about stuff.
