My partner has his stag plans confirmed and they are going on a weekend away in Poland... when I heard that I couldn't but roll my eyes... He has constantly said that he doesn't want a crazy stag due and knows I am not comfortable with strippers etc. So he has said it to his best man and this is the result? They have also planned other fun activities and maybe there won't be any strippers and I am just worrying for nothing. I can just see myself being anxious over the weekend and it is just before our daughters birthday (to top everything) so I really just don't want to be stressing about it. So I said to him yesterday if u do smth I am going to do the same afterwards. As in do whatever you want, just know I will do the same. He got absolutely furious and made me take back the words... Am I being unreasonable for a) worrying b) saying I will do whatever he does I just think if he gets to have fun, I should too. And this way I can relax and not worry about it. I think the worst part of it is the anxiety it's going to give me. I can just see myself stressing about it the whole long weekend.... and then it ruining our daughters birthday. What an idea to go there just before If he will agree to my plan, I can just relax and think nothing is going to happen and if somehing does, it's ok cause I will get to have fun too. Am I crazy? Anyone else worrying about the stag?