Hes such a NOB. He hasnt seen LO since he was 4 days old, because he went on a cruise. I havnt met ANY of his family or friends, his parents havnt even tried to see Jamiee. I told him before Jamiee was even born that he wasnt just going to waltz of with him when he felt like it, i wanted to meet his family first and be comfortable with him taking him out, since he cant even look after himself. Well he wanted him saturday night,(bare in mind he doesnt have anything for LO at his place, no where for him to sleep etc..) and i said no because i still havnt met his family and hes only seen him 3 times for about an hour each. He got shitty and i said well you dont even know how to look after a baby. THE NERVE. He said yeah well your no better. Erm who the flying monkies does he think looks after him? Am i being unreasonable here? Its not im saying he cant see him. I swear he just tries to piss me off. "ahh im shattered." oh really? was sitting on a boat getting a massage too much for you? or "oh you look .... better." well the last time you saw me i did just kinda push a nearly 8lb baby out, of course i look better. "You still have trouble weeing?" ERM, IM SORRY. What exactly is that to you? Hes coming round tomorrow to try and "discuss things" any money the words "you look better" come out of his gob.