I just wanted some opinions here really!! some of you may remember me posting once before about my sons dad. well here goes:
my sons dad lives with his wife and 3 kids (2 boys which are not his kids) 1 girl (who is his kid)
then there is his son who lives with me and my OH and daughter.
the sitution is that my sons dad sees our son every sunday and takes him over to their house for the day, lately it has been said that his wifes 2 boys will be taken out every sunday to avoid my son as he teases them and they dont want to play with him so they have the choice to go out, my son was therefore told by his dad that they are not there on a sunday to get away from him!!!!!
my son told me this and i went FUCKING MAD!!!!
i said how dare he say that to my son!!!! and if thats the case i will stop him from going to his dads every week if thats the case and his dad will have to see him under different circumstances!!
now he brought him back yesterday and said "well my wife has spoke to her boys and decided to give it another try!! i thought how many choices do you give a 7 year old!!! so my ex went on to say they wont tolerate fighting or teasing in their house, they are encouraged to talk it out!!!
now i dont encourage fighting myself but the way i see it is boys will be boys and will have the odd fight and will learn from doing it...right??? and as for teasing...come on dont all kids do that???? and can you imagine boys age 7 all sitting down and disscussing things?? get friggin real will ya!!
does anyone else see my point??? would like to see your opinions!!
it all seems like his wife seems to be in control of what does and doesnt happen and at the end of the day hes my son and i wont let him be the black sheep and be left out every week. do i have the right to say ur not going to their house but his dad is welcome to see him any other time somewhere else??
sorry for the long rant i just want your opinions xxx
my sons dad lives with his wife and 3 kids (2 boys which are not his kids) 1 girl (who is his kid)
then there is his son who lives with me and my OH and daughter.
the sitution is that my sons dad sees our son every sunday and takes him over to their house for the day, lately it has been said that his wifes 2 boys will be taken out every sunday to avoid my son as he teases them and they dont want to play with him so they have the choice to go out, my son was therefore told by his dad that they are not there on a sunday to get away from him!!!!!
my son told me this and i went FUCKING MAD!!!!
i said how dare he say that to my son!!!! and if thats the case i will stop him from going to his dads every week if thats the case and his dad will have to see him under different circumstances!!
now he brought him back yesterday and said "well my wife has spoke to her boys and decided to give it another try!! i thought how many choices do you give a 7 year old!!! so my ex went on to say they wont tolerate fighting or teasing in their house, they are encouraged to talk it out!!!
now i dont encourage fighting myself but the way i see it is boys will be boys and will have the odd fight and will learn from doing it...right??? and as for teasing...come on dont all kids do that???? and can you imagine boys age 7 all sitting down and disscussing things?? get friggin real will ya!!
does anyone else see my point??? would like to see your opinions!!
it all seems like his wife seems to be in control of what does and doesnt happen and at the end of the day hes my son and i wont let him be the black sheep and be left out every week. do i have the right to say ur not going to their house but his dad is welcome to see him any other time somewhere else??
sorry for the long rant i just want your opinions xxx