I'm dreadfully sorry for your loss. When we buried our little lady the cemetery simply arranged us a plot, that was it. We had to arrange the rest such as a service if we wanted one etc. The cemetery simply gave us information on the plot and details such as day and time the burial would take place and asked about transport. They also discussed things such as placing headstones, rules for decorations in the baby garden. I was a very tough time as there was a lot to sort out. Again I'm dreadfully sorry for your loss and hope you are surrounded by people to support you through it.