I've taken Alasdair to 2 so far. The first was okay, but there were no young babies there so I felt a bit stupid. The 2nd was a nightmare. It's my local one. I went in and managed to talk to one girl who was really off me but she was polite enough to explain that there are 2 groups within the group: the polish group (who naturally talk in Polish to one another) and the group who are all related. I felt so left out and like I didn't belong. I know I should try to go to another one as Alasdair and I cannot be hermits forever. Would someone reassure me that the next one I try might be different...even good?