twobecome3
One and one on the way
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so i want to breastfeed and i think i want the baby to sleep in the room with us for ease of nighttime feedings. not in our bed but beside us in the bassinette. everyone we've mentioned this to or has asked about it says "NOOOOOOO you will NEVER get your child out of your room. EVER" mind you not one of these women ever had their baby in the room with them, they all started them off separate. so i dont really appreciate their advice seeing they dont know what theyre talking about. i would appreciate some feedback or advice from women who actually cosleep/start baby in their room. are you happy you did this? how long to get baby into their own room? did it disturb your OH too much and you end up going into the other room to feed anyway? ive read a few books on attachment parenting and they described cosleeping as magical that they were so intune by having their baby close by they would end up waking up jus before baby would start to cry for food, feed, and baby goes back to sleep without making any noise... can it really go that well? or are you really better off keeping your bedroom off limits?