babynewbie
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Me and my boyfriend have different surnames, and we want to put little one in his surname, 1. its a muuchh nicer name than mine and goes a lot better with the first name weve chosen, 2. my surname is horrible have always hated it, 3. i just personally think that the child should have the fathers name.
But my mum and dad want us to have him in my surname, theyre convinced we will be splitting up and ill be stuck with a child with a different name to me.
And i know, like many people have said to me, that he is OUR child and its OUR decision, but my parents will not let this go and are being so horrible about it, and i just know if we go with his name there will be nonstop nastiness about it, but i really really dont want to use my name!
Its really getting to me im in such a state everytime it comes up (alot)
HELP!
x
But my mum and dad want us to have him in my surname, theyre convinced we will be splitting up and ill be stuck with a child with a different name to me.
And i know, like many people have said to me, that he is OUR child and its OUR decision, but my parents will not let this go and are being so horrible about it, and i just know if we go with his name there will be nonstop nastiness about it, but i really really dont want to use my name!
Its really getting to me im in such a state everytime it comes up (alot)
HELP!
x