We are having a small get together "shower", I don't like the term baby shower as people expect gifts. We are having it at a small bar and grill, like 25 people are invited, might get 20 people if we are lucky since it's on a Saturday and Saturday's are hard to get off of work. Only details I know is the invites are noah's ark theme. I may put my foot down on the cake, as I want to decorate it as we are planning on revealing the gender at that time, but my husband's grams wants the lady to make a jello cake, which I didn't really like.
As for the other details, wellll we will see when the time comes. Wasn't even sure I was having one since no one was keen on planning it for me, and I think it's shady to plan it yourself...seeing as tradition is a surprise for the new mom-to-be, so it's more of a get-together before our baby is born. xx