Bournefree
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Hi Ladies - I want to pick your brains!
Me and the OH don't have any family living in the local area and I'm wondering what to do about DD while I'm giving birth?? What did you do?
Of course I'm hoping that lo will arrive in the night, so there won't be any issues. And I know that if I was organising to go into a birth centre or hospital, this would be something that I would have to think about allot more... but as we are planning to be at home we don't have the problem of sorting out a longer-time care plan for DD.
In saying that though, what should I do if lo arrives in the daytime, or IF (big IF) we need to transfer - as it would be silly not to have any kind of back-up plan.. as just the same as packing a transfer bag. I'm really at a loss as to what we are going to do?!??
Basically our situation is this:
My mum and dad are currently in India, and will be returning to the Med somewhere near Turkey, where they now live. (since retiring, they are quite hard to convince to come back in to the UK and have become very free spirited, like having teenagers as parents! LOL - though, my mum was about for DD - dad didn't come back) My sister lives in London.. I could ask her, but that could take sometime, and I don't know if she could get time off work, as she is a freelance photographer.
My OH family are all in a small village in Wales which takes about 4 hours to drive to.
Friends - they all have young children of there own, and some have gone back to work. So even so, my good friend has offered to have DD.. I would have to work out a way to drop her round to her.. as she would need to look after her DD, and might not be able to do that at our house?! We have single friends, who would be available, but totally unsuitable as baby sitters - they just wouldn't have a clue!
Should I consider trying to find a registered babysitter?, and what are the chances of finding one that would be able to be on-call?
I'm sure that my mum would come back, but to be honest, she doesn't see DD very often (in-fact I think she has seen her 4 times since she was born) and hasn't ever looked after her. So I'm not confident about that - what a horrible thing to say of my mum, I know!
I could go a stay in Wales, but would have to move all my care, and what would OH do about work?
So what would you do/ or what did you do?... I'm running out of ideas and I've only just started to think about it>?
Thanks Ladies
xXx
Me and the OH don't have any family living in the local area and I'm wondering what to do about DD while I'm giving birth?? What did you do?
Of course I'm hoping that lo will arrive in the night, so there won't be any issues. And I know that if I was organising to go into a birth centre or hospital, this would be something that I would have to think about allot more... but as we are planning to be at home we don't have the problem of sorting out a longer-time care plan for DD.
In saying that though, what should I do if lo arrives in the daytime, or IF (big IF) we need to transfer - as it would be silly not to have any kind of back-up plan.. as just the same as packing a transfer bag. I'm really at a loss as to what we are going to do?!??
Basically our situation is this:
My mum and dad are currently in India, and will be returning to the Med somewhere near Turkey, where they now live. (since retiring, they are quite hard to convince to come back in to the UK and have become very free spirited, like having teenagers as parents! LOL - though, my mum was about for DD - dad didn't come back) My sister lives in London.. I could ask her, but that could take sometime, and I don't know if she could get time off work, as she is a freelance photographer.
My OH family are all in a small village in Wales which takes about 4 hours to drive to.
Friends - they all have young children of there own, and some have gone back to work. So even so, my good friend has offered to have DD.. I would have to work out a way to drop her round to her.. as she would need to look after her DD, and might not be able to do that at our house?! We have single friends, who would be available, but totally unsuitable as baby sitters - they just wouldn't have a clue!
Should I consider trying to find a registered babysitter?, and what are the chances of finding one that would be able to be on-call?
I'm sure that my mum would come back, but to be honest, she doesn't see DD very often (in-fact I think she has seen her 4 times since she was born) and hasn't ever looked after her. So I'm not confident about that - what a horrible thing to say of my mum, I know!
I could go a stay in Wales, but would have to move all my care, and what would OH do about work?
So what would you do/ or what did you do?... I'm running out of ideas and I've only just started to think about it>?
Thanks Ladies
xXx