Bad News Yesterday :(

Discussion in 'Miscarriage Support' started by Thradia, Dec 23, 2009.

  1. Thradia

    Thradia NTNP, but Hoping

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    Yesterday I went for my first scan...we were just going to date the pregnancy. Not 20 mins after I left the hospital, my OB called and told me to come to her office immediately.

    I am at 10 weeks, but the baby died at 6 and a half...and I've had a missed miscarriage. :cry: We discussed and decided that I would have a D&C on Monday, after Christmas.

    I'm still in shock.

    I barely slept. And now this morning I am feeling sick and starting to spot. She said if I start to bleed heavily, that I need to go to the hospital. I feel so scared. I just keep hoping that I don't bleed....I'm scared to go through that.

    This makes my Christmas just sucky.
     
  2. Kitkat09

    Kitkat09 Me-44; DH-42

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you can at least make it through the holiday without any problems. Hang in there.
     
  3. debgreasby

    debgreasby Happy Mummy!

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    Hunni, i'm so sorry. Rest up and take it easy xxx
     
  4. SmileyShazza

    SmileyShazza I'm a mum!

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    So sorry to hear about your loss.

    I am recoverying, as are a few of us, after a missed miscarriage. We (like you) found out at the 12 weeks scan that our little one stopped growing at 6 weeks. It is absolutely devastating and this past month has been so difficult but the ladies on here have been such an amazing support network and a great help for me.

    I too had a D & C and found that it really helped me to get some closure. I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this especially at this time of year :hugs:
     
  5. aviolet

    aviolet Mommy of 1 angel

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    :hugs: I'm so sorry :hugs:
     
  6. SugarKisses

    SugarKisses Luv my 3 miracle's

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    oh hun, I am so very sorry x x x
     

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