can anyone give some advise as someone might of been in this situation before i have been out with my best friend tonight and we had a really good time then she told me that her husband is gay!!! i am normally really good with advise and supporting people but i was totally dumbstruck! apart from giveing her lots of hugs and telling her we will talk properley tomorrow as she was very drunk and i thought it would be better to talk about it in the morning i didnt no what to say. i feel awful now as she has gone home and i feel i havent been much help anyone if you have got some advise im in urgent need. thankyou amber.