for those of you who don't know my situation... let me explain! I was with a guy named dylan for over 2 years. He was extremely abusive, and always threatened that if i got pregnant he would punch me in the stomach or whatever. well when i fell pregnant, i was TERRIFIED! i waited until i was 15 weeks along, because someone told him on facebook and he called me and threatened me all kinds of stuff. well he left me (go figure) and had absolutely nothing to do with me during my whole pregnancy. When karinna was born he told me that hes not paying any child support and refuses to pay a single penny for anything. I met my amazing OH named alan, who i've known forever. Hes 25 and i'm 18, and hes my brother's best friend, so i've seen him and hung out with him for a long time. When karinna was about 2 weeks old, we started seeing each other and he became extremely caring and wonderful. I was having a LOT of trouble with my ex, dylan. He would text me and call me and threaten me that he's going to sue me for full custody and such. So alan proposed to me and told me that he would do anything in the world for me and karinna. We had lots of talks and figured out the best way to go about this situation and realized the best thing to do would be to get Dylan to sign over his rights and have Alan adopt karinna as his legal daughter. So alan and i had a small family wedding on december 15th, and we have spent the last couple of weeks filling out paperwork like crazy for the adoption. So we got a call the other day saying that on February 7th we have an appointment in the morning and the adoption will official! Alan's family and my family are attending. Its going to be the happiest day of our lives! When Karinna will officially be Alan's daughter. I just wanted to share this with everyone, because some people are confused about missing the fact that i got married lol. He's the man of my dreams and saved me from my miserable nightmare that i have been living in for the last 3 years. And hopefully before valentines day we will get our so our amazing family can grow.