BFN but 4 days late. No symptoms of AF coming

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  1. Luna

    Luna Mum of two

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    Weird month. 3rd cycle TTC. Cycles months 1 and 2 were 32 and 28 days long. This month, no symptoms of AF (usually abdo pains, sore back etc) but no early preg symptoms either. Sex over fertile period (on holiday so no problems there) so theoretically could be preggers. Test says no...

    Simply a rant. Any thoughts? Tested 12dpo and 14dpo and both clearly BFN.
     
  2. Scootpootie

    Scootpootie Well-Known Member

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    I'm not an expert on stats, but I am an expert on hope. I wish you a ton of :dust: a :bfp: and a :blue: or a :pink:!!:happydance: Good luck!
    :hug:
     
  3. MrsQ

    MrsQ Mummy to Mikey and bump

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    try when your a week late? Sometimes (apparently) some women just dotn show bfp until a week late
    good luck!
    xxx
     
  4. lissaloo

    lissaloo Well-Known Member

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    i never get any symptome with all 3 nothing till i was late so don't throw in the towle yet !! good luck x
     
  5. caz81

    caz81 Well-Known Member

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    leave it a couple of days and test again, good luck xx
     
  6. Luna

    Luna Mum of two

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    Another clear BFN today. Now 5 days late. Very frustrating. Would love AF to simply come - hubby still hopes im preggers but looking unlikely...
     
  7. broodylocket

    broodylocket Well-Known Member

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    well good luck hun xxx fx xxx :hugs:
     
  8. Northern girl

    Northern girl Member

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    Good luck, hope you get the answer you are waiting for! Apparantly some ladies don't get a urine bfp until 5.5 - 6 weeks preg??? Maybe go to the gp and request a blood test? :) x
     
  9. Luna

    Luna Mum of two

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    Blood test wouldn't be helpful and to be honest would be a waste of NHS resources!!! Thanks for your thoughts.
     
  10. ricschick

    ricschick Proud mummy of 6!

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    hi im one of those ladies who doesnt get a bfp untill late i was atleast 5-6weeks preg before i got my bfp all 3 times so they is still a good chance. good luck!:hugs:
     
  11. lisab4939

    lisab4939 Mother of 1, Stepmum to 1

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    I know what you mean, I'm currently waiting on af to arrive - 4 days late and 17 dpo. Did a test this afternoon and got a BFN. Thought it was gonna be a BFP this month but doesn't look like it - sore boobs, erect nips, feeling a lot warmer and am usually cold pretty much all the time, tired - but still no blood flow. I could cry as its so frustrating .....
     
  12. flutterbylge

    flutterbylge Riley's mummy & expecting

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    i tested BFN up until 18dpo. Then on 18dpo bang! BFP! good luck xxx
     
  13. jules22

    jules22 Preggers :)

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    This might not help... but it did help me.

    Have you been using OPK strips? I'm on cycle day 50... crazy I know! But my cycles kept getting longer and longer so I decided to use them. I was able to pin-point exactly when I ovulated (well pretty darn close) and the first month using them we got our BFP. I hope that helps you! Good luck!!
     
  14. lisab4939

    lisab4939 Mother of 1, Stepmum to 1

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    I'm pretty new to these forums so don't understand alot of the jargon.. What is OPK strips - Ovulation strips????
     
  15. nellis10

    nellis10 TTC with Duofertility

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    This looks to be more common than I thought....My cycles are normally 25/26 days long with 12 day luteal phase bang on....I am now CD31, got a false positive on an FRER yesterday but temps are dropping....sore erect nipples too, nausea as well. But I am predicting I must ahve Ov'd alte on CD19 instead of CD13-15...:dohh:

    So if I wasn't temping (I only started temping this cycle on CD20) I would have assumed I was now 5 days late!!
     
  16. lisab4939

    lisab4939 Mother of 1, Stepmum to 1

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    Well my af arrived at 12.30am this morning just before I went to bed. Got up this morning and as the flow wasn't too bad foolishly thought I'd waste another pregnancy test strip ............ and wasted it was. Don't why I did, suppose the hope was still there!
     
  17. nellis10

    nellis10 TTC with Duofertility

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    cramps bad now and I think I see spotting...:dohh:

    Ah well CD1 here I come! :hugs:
     
  18. lisab4939

    lisab4939 Mother of 1, Stepmum to 1

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    What OPK strips did you use? I hope you don't mind me asking. I was looking on the internet and theres so many types. Thanks.
     
  19. lisab4939

    lisab4939 Mother of 1, Stepmum to 1

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    Just bought some from Ebay today. So fingers crossed. Thanks for the advice.
     
  20. MissInked

    MissInked TTC after ectopic

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    Just wondering how this turned out for any of you ladies as I am now in the same boat!
     

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