~~~ Big family wanted ~ trying for #3 + ~~~

Neither of the girls dads are on their birth certificate thank god and as I am the only one with parental responsibility there was no need to ask the ex's The oldest dad wasnt happy when he took us to court 2 months after the name change but hay hoo he left me as soon as he knew I was pregnant..... An 18 month court case turned to nothing as he couldnt be bothered to do what was asked of him in order to establish contact with a child he had never seen she was 4 when we had to tell her about her real father, she is now 11 and never mentions him. The other DD is 9 but has a global delay so I don't think she is ready or ever will be to understand it

 

Oh dear thats not good, you and you boy are better off out of that family.

I know the feeling with the solicitor leters etc.. but we kept our address hiden and did eveything through my parents address.....they have moved since so we are harder to track down.

It was a horrible day the day i had to tell DD she did change a bit in her personality and went from very very happy 4 yr old to a little bit quiet. we have already had the "your not my dad" moment now she is in comp lol but she soon says sorry

 

Same here!!
Harry will be 7 on thursday, and he has no clue! I don't want him to ever find out cause it will break his heart. But you hear off these stories where kids find out later in life and blame there moms, and go off the rails. It scares me. My biggest fear is him wanting to find his biological father, who's now got 5 kids by 5 women!! xx

 

hey sorry to intrude but my eldest son i had to explain to him the man that bought him up from birth was not his biological father i told my son when he was 6 cos like you i was worried like when he got older he will blame me and hate me and want to live with him but he took it in his stride and now with my oh who loves all my kids the same he tells everyone he is my daddy and if asked about anything he will say he didnt help make me but hes my daddy hes nearly 10 now in april xx

 

Hey im ttc number 4!! i always said no more but i know we are happy and wanting more!! i have a 3 year old 2 year old and 6 month old!! all boys! not bothered bout sex just love being a mummy!
my oh is brill to!

On the different dad thing!

all my kids are the same dad BUT my sisters and me have different dads!
my mum told me when i was 14 that my "dad" wasnt my dad and i went off the rails for all of 3 months! then i sat with her while she explained what happened (he bailed!!) and im closer now to her than ever! dont worry to much
xxxx

 

Think I'm 10dpo today too scared to test. Won't test at all this month can't face too see a neg- puts me on a downer the whole day no good when I'm
At work

It will happen for everyone, in time

 

Aww, thats made me feel loads better.
Just noticed we both have a Charlie and Harry lol xx

 

Hi girls - can I join you

I'm 37 and have a 4 yr old and 18 months and ttc another one! x

 

We started ttc when Eddie was 3 months old, so that was a year and two months ago, but I have hormonal problems and I was "forced" on the pill for 3 months to try to regulate my cycle, and I just took another three months off because we were moving house and setting up a new business and life was a bit too hectic! So that makes what ---8 months.

How about you?

 

lol I was shocked when i saw my first cervix piccie!

Sorry it's been 3 yrs for you hun Did it take long with your 2? I ttc'd 10 month for no.1 and then 18 months for no.2 xx