Big fat whinge.

[Char&Bump-x]

There's a party at my house tonight. I spent about an hour getting ready, but my hair wouldn't go right, so I left it and had a drink then went back upstairs, looked in the mirror and burst into tears. I've been sat here crying since because not only do i look like a fat ugly pig BUT no-one will notice I'm gone because I don't have any friends, everyone here is here for my OH.

To make things worse, OH came up and asked why I was crying, I told him then he went downstairs and started talking about how fit some girl on tv was knowing I could hear him and my confidence is at rock bottom right now.

I used to be proud of my looks. I wasn't ugly. So why do I feel it now

 

[mummy3]

Thats mean of your oh! Don't pay any attention to him, he's probably just acting the lad

You are very pretty hun, chin up

 

[Feltzy]

Your beautiful hun! I think I'm a bit like you though because I am overly critical of myself. Your OH was insensitive for saying that but my OH is the same, always likes to be a Jack the Lad infront of his mates, he was probably saying it for their benefit more than anything. My OH is also against giving me compliments, he said he doesn't like to incase I get a big head, men!

I only have 2 real friends and when we invite people round its always OH's friends. I don't mind though, I've kind of embraced them as my friends too now, do you not feel the same about your OH's friends?

I have bad days where I feel just like you, a haircut, new clothes, a bit of make up (or a glass of wine lol) normally makes me feel a little better about myself.

 

[jenny_wren]

your oh was a bit harsh!

ps. i think you're pretty ​

 

[feisty_filly]

oh hun i know just where your comeing from, listening to you is like looking in a mirror! just try and take a deep breath, sit back and think about all the people who care about you. my oh is the same but they dont mean to hurt you i think they just dont think.

 

[pinkish_angel]

we all feel like that at times. I have days where I will look in the mirror and cry.. I'll not even wanna start the day cuz nothing in my wardrobe fits/looks good/my hairs a mess/Im spotty blah blah (and on a really bad day, all of them lol). Truth is, its just our emotions. Theres nothing wrong with us. You are beautiful. Don't let your oh make you feel any different. Even if he did so unintentionally. Im sure his talk of the girl on tv isnt any reflection about the way he sees you. Go down and enjoy the rest of the party..