Hi all, so i need some advice.. my partner and i split a couple of days after i found out i was pregnant. He told me he didn't qant the baby and that i 'should get rid of it'. He was absokutely vile to me about the baby and about myself. Then he came back begging me etc. but we dont work and then went again. He has been discusting to me for the last 8 weeks since i found out. He is now telling me - after weeks of telling me to 'kill the thing' that he will be at the birth no matter what i say and he will have the baby after the birth. It is not as simple as this. So, he is a drug user. He uses Cannibis, Ketamine, Valium and whatever else he can get his hands on on a regular basis - and by this i mean daily. I am not wrong in thinking that i do not have to give him rights to enter the room or even tell him that i have gone into labour am i? I do not have to allow him to be there? I know it sounds horrible but he has told me to 'kill the thing' multiple times and been discusting to me and all the while i have still offered him to attend appointments in plenty of time which he has never showed up to. What should i do? any advice? I do not want him at the birth as i dont need the extra stress, i plan on as calm a labour as possible without him there making me feel uncomfortable.