Il try to keep it short.. Only found out a few days ago (through 4 home preg tests all positive) that im pregnant.. Not even been to the docters or anything like that yet... My OH told his mum as soon as id found out..iv not told my mum yet cause i dont want to until iv had everything confirmed etc. Since he told his mum she's done nothing but nag nag nag me and its driving me mad!! The first thing she said to me was and i quote "If you get an abortion your banned from my house and il never speak to you agen" What a lovely thing to say to a 17 year old thats just found out shes preg? I dont think so. (OH didnt agree with this comment btw he's also getting annoyed with her and told her so but she didn't seem to change at all) And now she's going on about it all the time..I have the docters tomorrow and she wants to go with me! I dont want her there though so she wont be coming in. lol She keeps saying things like...Il buy all its clothes, Il look after it while you work/college, Il buy it what ever it needs, Its my grandchild you cant get rid..etc etc.. Ok so i might sound totally ungreatful but im really getting sick of it! Does she understand if i have this baby its gonna be mine and her sons responsability? I dont want to rely on her for anything... Its just getting really hard to bear..feels like shes trying to control everything to do with my baby/pregnancy.. Sorry for the long rant but needed someone to complain to.. Any advice on how to deal with an overbearing OH's parent is very very welcome.. Thanks xx Forgot to mention we are keeping this baby..& it hasn't been influenced by what she's said.