bit peeved... midwife appointment on thursday was fine...except there was something she said that was really offensive... stuff about getting someone to help me look after my child!!!! Not 'will you need help?' or anything, straight in with talking about getting someone in...it's not happening, no bloody way! My child, hubby and I will care for child, why is it that cause I'm disabled, people think crap like that? Yes it's gonna hurt every time I pick my baby up...but FFS we thought about that and discussed it a long time ago. Our baby, our responsibility!