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biting the bullet booking a FS appt for next week

sukisam

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Hi ladies :hi:

hubby and I have been ttc no 4 for 2 years after he had a vasectomy reversal, we had a terrible appointment with a FS in Jan this year where she said i was too old (I'm 39) and fat to consider having another baby and i was lucky enough to have 2 live children so why am I risking my life to try and have another one? she also said I'm not ovulating- I am I get positive opks and them temp dip then rise which drops just before AF, my cycles are 28-30 days and I ovulate CD 14-16 and generally have 14 day LP.

I am overweight and would love to loose weight but have just found it almost impossible since loosing my dad after a long illness and the whole ttc saga hasn't helped. I have no health problems, normal B/P and take no medication so while i appreciate pregnancy would be better if i was lighter i don't think i would die if I got pregnant.

Hubby has okay sperm count but poor motility and high sperm antibodies so we know that's an issue and we know ttc will take longer.

Anyway, I have an appt with my GP tommorrow and I'm hoping she re-checks my FSH, LH etc and then I'll make an appt to see a different FS next week (it's private because we are lucky enough to have children). He will do a ultrasound scan too to see how things look and any follicles ready to be releasead. I am very nervous I know it might not happen and we're luck to already have kids but i just want to know we gave ourselves the best chance possible. I just want an expert to assess our situation and tell us if it's possible to get preggers.

Wish me luck ladies i'm terrified this is going to be the end of our ttc journey
xxxxxxx
 
Has anyone got any words of wisdom or support?
 
good luck lovely, fingers crossed its all good news for you.

Very harsh and untrue words from the FS :( lets hope your GP is more encouraging for you, xx
 

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