Bitter sweet day.....

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Today would have been my due date, but we lost our baby at 14 weeks in Dec. I'm incredibly sad today. :cry: But I sit here looking at our ultrasound pic from last week and I can't help but smile through the tears. :cloud9: To anyone who's gone through this, how do I make it through today??? I should be holding another LO in my arms right now.... I am a ball of emotions today....
 
Huge hugs. :hugs:

It must be incredibly hard. I'm still just under 12 weeks from my last due date. It's hard not to keep counting the weeks of my last pregnancy.


I hope today isn't too hard on you.
 
I'm so sorry to hear this, but hope you have a h&h pregnancy this time! I haven't been through this but sadly my cousin has. She found out last spring at her 20 scan that baby had passed away a few weeks earlier she was beyond devastated as I'm sure you were. She delivered the baby and named him. This week she has given birth to a healthy whooping 10lb baby boy and is looking forward to the future, I know she will always miss her baby and he can never be replaced but she has to move on xxx
 
Awwww, big hugs to you :hugs:

But please remember, the little one you're carrying now wouldn't be here if things were different. I know you must have very conflicting feelings, but please enjoy this pregnancy xxxxxxxxxxxx
 
I'm sorry for your loss! I can't imagine what that feels like! :hugs:

I agree with PP, try to enjoy your pregnancy. You will have a beautiful baby soon. I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months! :flower:
 
Massive hugs to you :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

Think of your beautiful baby as a gorgeous angel looking down on you and making sure that the little bean in your womb is healthy and beautiful.

Take care of yourself today :hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
I know exactly how you are feeling - I lost my baby at 17 weeks in November and my DD was 25th April.

On the day that would have been my DD my partner and I actually booked to see a medium for a reading. She told us lots of positive things about our future which helped me not to dwell on the past!

Although i didn't know, I was pregnant at the time we saw the medium!

now I just try to take some comfort that if this baby is a sticky bean (and I hope or pray it is!!) he/she will have their little brother as their angel to sit on their shoulder and guide them through life.

Hugs xxx
 
i know how you must be feeling, this monday coming will have been my due date :( but on tuesday i find out the sex of this baby, so very bittersweet.
I hope things go well for you in your pregnancy x
 

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