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hi everyone :)
soo sorry for your losses :-( + congratz on the new pregnancys! x x
i lost my angel (no heartbeat detected at 12wk scan) in november 2010 (r.i.p angel)

im currently 5 weeks from lmp, got my bfp yesterday 30th :)
feel so blessed to have conceived after 3rd cycle! x
im feeling positive atm but i know near dating scan ill be a right emotional wreck :-( x hard to know how to convince myself that everything will be ok!

id like to buddy up from someone in similar story please for email-msn buddy :) x
 
Congratz sweetie and sorry for your loss :hugs:

I MMC just before Christmas at 9wks and feel so blessed to have got my BFP so quickly but like you i was a wreck when i went for an early scan last Thurseday totally expecting the worst and was amazed i got to see :baby: with heartbeat and was dated 6+1, i couldnt help but breakdown in the scan room didnt expect good news :happydance:

Will be booking a private scan at 9wks just to settle my worries, but fx'd this time will be ok :hugs:

Good luck too sweetie :kiss:
 
Yay sooo pleased to hear of your cute bean being well! :) x x x
my dating scan won't be until may. . soo long to wait! i have doctors confirmed pregnancy so atleast its down on books!
im bit nervous wreck atm not to bad thou but i know towards scan in may i will be! (may was my angels due time aswell) x
love to follow your progress ill be stalking you x x :)
 
Have you not thought of going for a private scan just to help reasure you? Think if i had to wait till May id be climbing the walls :haha: awww its going to be even harder for you if your due date was in May too :hugs::hugs:

Keep me informed want to see how you go :kiss:
 
Thats true huni but anything can happen until 12 weeks so i think if I had early one got excited then at 12 wk one anything can happen :( But if they offer one i might to for it to relax me! we'l see :) xxxx
 
Hi ladies! Can I join? I just got my BFP the other day. I am just shy of 4 weeks and I am so nervous. We lost our angel at 41 weeks; I went in for a checkup and they couldn't find a heartbeat. We are very excited yet aprehensive. If anyone wants to be buddies, you can message me and I will share my email address. Good luck to you!!!:flower:
 
Im so sorry for your loss lindc :hugs: i cant even imagine what you went through, is that your angel in your avatar? x
 
Thanks poppy! Yeah, that's my little angel :cry: You can't see in the photo, but she had a full head of black hair too! She was my first miracle and hopefully this one will stick really well and be healthy so she can have a brother or sister.
 
She's gorgeous , you so deserve this little one so hope him/her is stuck with super glue and im sure Amalia will be watching over you both to make sure you get this 2nd little miracle :cry::hugs:
 
Thank you so much! I think that she was just to beautiful and special to be here on earth, so God brought her home. I'm sorry for your loss as well. Any loss, no matter how early or late, is a tragedy.

I'm glad that you are almost 7 weeks! I will be just a couple behind you. My EDD is 12/12 but I will be brought in for a c-section a week before that.

How have you been feeling?
 
Is the C-section just as a precaution? My last LO Korben arrived 2wks early think it was because i was on the blood thinners, so im expecting this one to be early too.

Aww you'll have a Christmas :baby:

Im good thank you, do get a bit paranoid as i dont really have much in the way of symptoms, but at least with my scan last week i got to see beanie and HB 'more than what i saw last time' .

How you feeling? x
 
Yeah, I had an emergency c-section last time when I was 41 weeks. I was induced but after 36 hours of labor and only 4cm dialated, I had a C. So, they won't even let me go full term just to be cautious.

I know what you mean about paranoid--I'm completely paranoid! I actually don't have any symptoms yet, that is what led me to believe that I might be pregnant. I had no AF cramps so I took a test. Last time though, I didn't start to have symptoms til about 8 weeks and then I was sick ALL DAY LONG! lol But I welcome being sick and miserable for my little :baby:

If you don't mind me asking, how far along were you last time? I love your sonogram pic by the way! I'm so excited to get mine in another month.
 
I was only 9wks was totally devasted and Christmas was awful here, but for you to go through a still birth at 41wks your such a brave lady and i can understand how paranoid you will be but i hope you have everyone keeping a close eye on you sweetie.

Actually thats really upsetting, was there a reason for Amalia going so soon? sorry hope you dont think im prying x
 
Gotta' ask... how are each of you dealing with the emotional turmoil that goes along with being pregnant after miscarriage? How are you handling the fear of having another miscarriage? I know everyone is different, but some days I feel like a basket case. I just would like some ideas as to how to pass the time and get through this critical period.
 
Willyandcourt hi :) welcome + congratz! well me being pregnant is really helping me deal with losing my angel, but i had a cry other day because i feel guilty being happy, anyone else feel that way?
im not to scared atm but i know towards my scan ill be petrified! + on scan time omg i know ill be crying when sonographer looking for a beat!
how you feeling hun?

lindc- im so sorry huni words can't express :-( your gorgeous angel will be soo proud of you! your an amazing inspirational angel mommy + u really deserve this pregnancy to go well!
heres my email if anyone wants to buddy up (as i can't get on b+b much takes ages on phone lol :) x
not sure if it lets you write emails here ?

khadijah786 AT live DOT co DOT uk
 
poppy666--I don't mind! I try to give people whatever information that they want because I want people that we aren't alone in our grief. There was no reason. There was no cord or placenta problem. They did a test for any congenital or chromosomal abnormalities and she was completely healthy. They yested me for everything and I am healthy too. So, they call it SIDS in the womb and while it is rare, it DOES happen. My hospital in Maryland is one of the leading hospitals in the U.S. that studies SIDS in the womb but there are no reasons yet. They said that even if I would have been induced on my due date, she might have passed from SIDS at home...and that would have been even worse than this hell that I have had to live with. And I know what you mean about the holidays--Thanksgiving, Christmas,and New Year's were all horrible for me. We catually have her in an urn at home with us so that way she is always with us in body as well as spirit :cry:

mommyandbump--thank you, I appreciate it! All of us deserve a blessing :hugs:

willyandcourt--I have no idea! I'm so paranoid right now that I can't think straight yet! I'll let you know if I think of anything.
 
lindc- im lost for words. im so sorry. your gorgeous girl is always with u + watching over you <3
 
lindc ive never heard of SIDS in the womb, just beyond devasting :hugs:
 
thank you mommyandbump--I think that we are all surrounded by our little angels and they are protecting us right now when we need them the most. I do get sad when I think about what we have been through, but this is a little bit of joy right now that has given me some hope for the future :flower: I pray that all of us stay safe in our journeys.
 
I'm glad to see we all have mixed emotions. I try to keep myself busy with work or do things at home that will help keep my mind busy (reading, playing a game, minor housework, etc.)
 

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