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My daughter is 7 months old and although she was well worth the wait, it took my partner and I 3 years to conceive her (no pregnancies until my daughter). We would like to have another child fairly close in age and I have said that I will see where my head is at after Christmas because my daughter will be around 14months old and hopefully I will be mentally ready after a tough birth (posterior, stuck in birth canal). However, I am afraid that it will take a long time to conceive again and I will end up with a much bigger age gap between my children. I have two options: 1. Start TTC sooner just incase it takes a long time again, but then if I conceive straight away I am so not ready for another yet. 2. Hold off on the TTC until after Christmas as planned and add another 6 months to the age gap, and that'll be without the length of time it'll take to conceive. I am so stuck with what to do, I understand nobody can make the decision for me (as fab as that would be!! ) but any advice anyone can offer me will be much appreciated. Thank you