beckie1991
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Hi ladies, i really need some advice.
My fiance and i have been trying for a baby for almost 2 year now and as close as we have gotten is a chemical pregnancy last year.
Earlier this year we got his sperm tested and there was no sperm AT ALL no live ones, no dead ones, nothing deformed, not a single thing.
It has taken me a while to get over this and I have now accepted that he will need to use drugs to help him, so for the past 4 weeks he has been taking a multitude of drugs but my question is how can i offer him support without making him feel like i am blaming him for not being fertile???
last week we did another test at home and it was negative, we are trying to wait until december before going back to the doctors for another sperm test. We will use the drugs until then but it is costing us so much money right now that i feel totally overwhelmed.
Any advice anyone can offer will help so much.
Beckie
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My fiance and i have been trying for a baby for almost 2 year now and as close as we have gotten is a chemical pregnancy last year.
Earlier this year we got his sperm tested and there was no sperm AT ALL no live ones, no dead ones, nothing deformed, not a single thing.
It has taken me a while to get over this and I have now accepted that he will need to use drugs to help him, so for the past 4 weeks he has been taking a multitude of drugs but my question is how can i offer him support without making him feel like i am blaming him for not being fertile???
last week we did another test at home and it was negative, we are trying to wait until december before going back to the doctors for another sperm test. We will use the drugs until then but it is costing us so much money right now that i feel totally overwhelmed.
Any advice anyone can offer will help so much.
Beckie
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