my reply... 'Erm.. do i know you?' some woman stinking of fags and real BO just come walking up to me at playgroup and asked if she could hold ffion. no hi, how are you? my name is blah blah blah. just 'can i hold your baby' my mouth fell open and all i could do was ask if i knew her, she replied no ive never been here before, so i told her it wasnt polite to ask to hold other peoples babies! might have been a tad rude with my replies, woops!