Just feeling a little sad about my friends. Yesterday friend ONE asked the baby question while chatting. I told her Im thinking about it, but Im not sure due to the global crisis, and we dont have our own place yet, etc ... blabla, and worried about baby making process blabla... She replied: You are stupid and weird Aaa ofcourse you wont have a baby, no baby would want a weird mom as you I said: What? Im gonna cry now She replied: Oh I wish I could hear you cry I was just thinking wtf. Anyway I wont tell her that we are TTC, then everybody would know. I just dont understand her comments, were they supposed to be funny? was she joking? or does she have bad humor? Then friend TWO. I told her that my sister-in-law just had a difficult birth. The baby seemed paralyzed when born due to a raptured vain in the head, the head had to be openened etc ... and a tube going now from the head to the stomach etc... the baby is fine as of today except for the tube and possible other complications the doctors are not sure of. And all she could say was: See you shouldnt have kids after 30! Whats wrong with them? I wanted to be mean back, but I couldnt be mean back, I regret now not being mean back No I actually just wanted to pick them up and throw them over my head, if it wasnt year 2009 Mean people!