Can someone just send me a prayer?

[brutus09]

I'm giving up on trying myself. I've charted, took vitamins, Robitussin, ect, and RIGHT NOW I'm very fertile. My husband promised me last week that we would have sex everyday this week to make sure that it would happen. So tonight I asked him if we was gonna DTD and he said ok, go get me pill, ie: Cialis.

He is just soooooo not into this. I am crushed. When he wanted his child from me I jumped through freaking hoops and did everything I could. But he could care less. He's just working on his damn models that he works on. He don't realize that I'm lying here in pain and trying everything I can do not to just bawl my brains out crying. I feel like such an idiot. I am not going to ask him for sex anymore. I SHOULD NOT HAVE TO ASK IN THE FIRST PLACE. Right? I feel so demeaned and low. Just because I want another child? Well I'm throwing up my hands at this, and if he wants a child, then he will have to come after me and pursue me like he did with our first one.

I just feel so demeaned. LIke an idiot.

Ya'll just say a prayer so I can get my self esteem back, because right now I am at rock bottom, and he don't even realize it or care.

 

[Duffy]

Awww hunny big hugs to you, when we tried our first time of a year and half of negatives it put a HUGE damper on are relationship and we breaked, which worked and by some mircle we got pregnant right away Maybe you just need a small break and to inner connect as a couple?

It sucks when we have to ask promt and practically beg for sex while ttc and it really hurts the spirit, so double hugs to you.

 

[Jasiellover]

Big hugs to you girl and I am saying a prayer for you now. I hope everything works out. I agree as much as you want it maybe you should just give yourself some time to let him show he wants it too.

 

[Allie84]

I'm saying a prayer for you.

 

[CapitalChick]

Honey, if your first baby arrived just a couple months ago, I reckon that your husband is just boody wiped! My DH and I used to laugh, for the first 11 months of our daughter's life that we just didn't CARE to have sex ever again! We were just so tired. Neither of us ever cared if we had sex again! LOL.
But now that we're finally well rested, we're back into it. But it took a year!!!
At first I felt really bad reading your post, but then I saw that your baby just arrived a couple months ago and I thought "WHOA!!! And they're already TTC?!?!?!?! No wonder he's not into it!".
Don't rush, honey, it's all going to be ok!!

hugz and best wishes.

 

[Jazzybub]

 

[brutus09]

Honey, if your first baby arrived just a couple months ago, I reckon that your husband is just boody wiped! My DH and I used to laugh, for the first 11 months of our daughter's life that we just didn't CARE to have sex ever again! We were just so tired. Neither of us ever cared if we had sex again! LOL.
But now that we're finally well rested, we're back into it. But it took a year!!!
At first I felt really bad reading your post, but then I saw that your baby just arrived a couple months ago and I thought "WHOA!!! And they're already TTC?!?!?!?! No wonder he's not into it!".
Don't rush, honey, it's all going to be ok!!

hugz and best wishes.

Well, I'm 39 and we didn't want to or need to wait. He "claims" to want another one as bad as I do and just as soon, but it seems like he isn't trying in the least. If it wasn't for my age, I wouldn't even be worrying about any of this. But you know how our "clock is ticking", so the pressure sucks.
But thanks for the encouragement. We aren't tired, it is pretty easy on us with Tristan. He is a wonderful baby. Just wish the hubby would cooperate better because who knows how long it will take to conceive another one. Tristan is my husbands only child, and we arent' getting any younger.