Can't decide when?

[mummyclo]

Hi ladies...
So i keep changing my mind about when we want to be ttc again. We are getting married in July next year and i don't know whether to wait. DS was conceived first time but i don't know if maybe it will take a while to conceive the next one. I have changed my mind from before wedding to when DS is 3 to just after the wedding and now i am thinking before the wedding again! Argh...
I think i am just broody because he is growing up so quick
Anyone else had this trouble?
x

 

[lepaskilf]

Wow, you're feeling broody now when your LO is 9 months old and you think you might be able to hold until he is 3!!!..... I wouldn't be able to do that!

Do what you feel is comfortable... will you be in a better situation when LO is 3? What do you think of the age gap? etc xxx

 

[RosesOfTin]

^ what she said.

If you're getting married in July you'll wind up being heavily pregnant for your wedding, or just a couple weeks postpartum if you catch now. You need to decide whether or not you want to be pg for your wedding and start from there. That's how I'd do it. For me we're going to try in December. If I catch I'm due in September, we'll pause on trying for January as in October we have a lot of pre-planned things happening that would be fine to include a LO in, but not give birth around the same time.

It's just a matter of wishes and must haves and priority. Just a mind boggling mess to try to sort through, trust me. I know.

 

[mummyclo]

Thanks, very good points! I think we'll wait till after the wedding all things considered. That was the initial plan anyway! x

 

[RosesOfTin]

Regardless of your decision you're going to be a gorgeous and very happy bride! Congrats on your upcoming wedding!