if we should get joshua christened*sp?* or not. me and hubby are christened but we dont go to church and dont really believe in it all. i dont want people to think that i/we dont care as we wont get him christened. i dont want it to be a case that he needs it when hes older i.e. for getting married in a church. even if we did want him christened im not sure if the church will allow us as around my area they wont christen you unless you attend church regularly. do you think he will need it? if we dont get him christened are we bad parents? ooh i dont know what to do.