Before I went back to work I had a great routine with DD. Part of it was nap time, I'd put her in her cot, give her her dummy and bunny, turn on her music mobile or glow worm and then walk out, closing the door. She usually didn't fuss about it. DH almost always put her to bed at night. Now she's in the creche and has her nap there, and DH does most of the bedtimes still (he doesn't see her as much during the day as me). I don't put her down often. He puts her in her cot, gives her her dummy, turns on her music mobile/glow worm, then crawls out of the room so she can't see him, and leaves the door open. I didn't realise for a long time that he does the crawling thing, until I came out of the bathroom one day and found him on his hands an knees in the hall Anyway, now DD screams if I put her to bed and do it my way - walking out and closing the door. And I'm pregnant with number 2, so crawling out of the room isn't going to be an good option in a few months time. So how do I change the routine, and more importantly how do I convince my husband on the change?