cant stop stressing!!!

[Clo]

Argh! Cant stop stressing 2day! Im so worried something is going to go wrong again, even tho its a bit irrational to be stressing this early on as i didnt lose Frazer until 23 weeks...but there were problems right from the start, i just didnt know it.

How does everyone cope with the stress?...I just cant stop thinking 'what if something goes wrong again?'

Its stupid cuz im even stressing that i have no cramps this time which i had loads of last time. My OH keeps saying that its a good thing that i feel different from last time as things werent right last time...and i know hes right but i still cant stop worrying bout it

Sorry for that rant!...feels better to let it out tho.

 

[hb1]

don't think there's any way to stop it but do lean on your support network when you're feeling like this - and ranting does help too.


hx

 

[Peril]

Its sooo hard to relax and enjoy... I worry if i have no symptoms, i worry if i do! I can't win! lol... we're all there for you!

Good luck with this one! xx ✿*ﾟ‘ﾟ･✿ HUGS ✿*ﾟ‘ﾟ*✿

 

[croydongirl]

I know exactly how you are feeling, and I wish I had something helpful to say, The past 2 days I have had crazy cramping and all I wanted was the cramping to stop then woke up this morning with no cramps and this horrible feeling hit me, "I don't feel pregnant". Then I had a patch of brown spotting in my undies when I went to the bathroom and panic hit me, it's happening again, I'm losing it.

But then nothing, and now the cramps have returned and I am feeling like it's going to end because I AM cramping. My body is crazy and my poor husband just doesn't know what to say to ease my anxiety.

Just have to make it until tomorrow to get blood work at the MW, hoping to get high numbers which will calm me.

At this point I just wish I knew either way because I could get on and be happy or sad but this not knowing is killing me.

Praying for peace for all of us, and healthy happy pregnancies and babies xx

 

[Lucy1973]

Sorry Clo, things might feel different but I understand the worry. I really hope everything is fine for you this time, just try and take one day at a time, and talk to all us girls on here.

Croydon girl hope for high numbers for you! By the way I am originally from Croydon, went to school there.
everyone

 

[Mummy2Angel.]

 

[tinybutterfly]

Its sooo hard to relax and enjoy... I worry if i have no symptoms, i worry if i do! I can't win!

i'm exactly like that

i want that baby in my arms already...perfectly healthy and all

 

[Swanny]

I feel the same, I'm paranoid everytime I go to the loo every twinge or cramp....I've had no sickness just an odd gagg when I'm starving I have sore boobs but that's it. Other than that I wouldn't know I was pregnant at all and I'm SOOOOO worried. I only had a scan last week and saw heartbeat and I'm being scanned again in another week but I'm going insane. I thought I saw some spotting on tissue yesterday but have seen nothing since and it could have just been a speck on the loo roll but I wish I had analized it now instead I just threw it down loo. Every time I cramp I set myself up for the worst

 

[Beanbabe]

Its hard when you have a late loss cos you have to wait so long to get past that milestone. At the start I was just like you but now Im 19 wks 2moro.
Try to be thankfull that each day that passes is one day closer and set yourself small targets. Its the only way through those early sloooooooow days when each day feels like a week. It does get faster i promise!!

 

[fluffyblue]

Hun im 22 weeks this week and still panic every day, i still knicker check, doppler check, movement check etc its instilled in us PAL mummies !

I dont google now like i used to and lean on the ladies here so much - u will get through it.

It must be hard with the memories you have but each PG is so different than the other xxxx

 

[Pretty Please]

Hey there,

Yeah understand where everyone is coming from.

It would be nice if somehow our bodies could let us know whether this is the one or not and then all of us wouldnt be stressing. Everyday I think "do I feel different to last time" and not knowing of exactly what I should be feeling at this moment in time drives me crazy!

Also going a bit loopy thinking should I be carrying shopping, going swimming (therefore doing no excercise just to increase the chances of this one sticking and not getting bumped around - sounds stupid) and white pants at night are a must! - weird how the brain goes into over drive.

Just hope we all get through it girlies with happy endings. Yeah and OH just dont understand this forum is great to talk to woman who understand

Croyden girl my thoughts are with you tom xxxxx

 

[Lindyloo]

Hi Clo... sounds like you OH is being really supportive, I find support from my OH good somedays and really unhelpful others. I hope you manage you are able to see your midwife soon and maybe get am early scan for reasurrance soon.

I am not great with words at the mo because I'm so exhausted but we are all here for you

Take care x