Can't tell anyone I'm embarrassed

[Kaylattc]

I'm to embarrassed to tell anyone event my mom that I'm pregnant again.. I'm embarrassed because every time I get pregnant I lose my baby and everyone gets awkward and I hate it...

Now I just can't say anything, I feel stupid is this normal for PAL?

 

[filipenko32]

Hi kayla,

I know just how you feel how many losses have you had?

 

[SabrinaKat]

pretty normal, honey -- we waited to tell MIL until 12wks with a scan becasue I didn't want to upset her if something went wrong again (1 mc and two possible chemicals); I did tell my own parents at 10wk but said it was unofficial until we were a bit further along, but I wanted my mom to know in case.....I told my overall boss as soon as I found out as was again scared of mc and didn't want to have to explain if I needed time off (again....)

how far along are you? (and how many losses?)

However, your mother at least might be very upset if you don't tell her as mc is very, very hard to deal with all on your own -- what about FOB/OH? How do they feel?

try and take care of yourself.....

best wishes

 

[Pretty Please]

You know who you want to tell and the time whether thats immediately or in 15 weeks. Maybe it might be nice for support to tell a couple of close friends who can be trusted???

I never tell anyone except 3 close friends and here on BandB obviously my husband too - hehe ! Never tell any family members including parents and sisters as I dont want the hassle and sometimes I dont want to talk about MC hence I keep everything to myself. Also, I do think that lots of people dont say anything until 12 weeks

Only you know whats best for you and the way people handled your MC previously whether to tell or not. xxxx

 

[Kaylattc]

I lost this one......Doesn't matter now anyways.

 

[filipenko32]

 

[SabrinaKat]

i'm sorry, honey -- the ladies here are great (and in mc section), if you need a friend....

best wishes

 

[Kaylattc]

Thank you.

 

[Kaylattc]

I am so glad I didn't tell anyone now......

I am blaming my doctor now. I am filled with so many emotions right now....

I feel like my doctor could have done a lot more knowing my history...

I am def next month going to make him monitor me a whole lot closer.
I can't go thought his again. I haven't seen any blood yet and I know when I do and I feel the pain again I am going to panic really bad. I do not know how I am going handle this.

How do I brace myself for what is about to come. I know this isn't my first time but I feel like I have blocked the others out and like this is new all over again.. I feel weak and nauseated and my breasts hurt... I still feel pregnant and I know that I'm not anymore because of that stupid HCG test uh I hate that test so much

I had to wait a three days for the second test and then an entire weekend which felt like a month for the results just to find out my dream is not coming true again...

Sorry for the rant...

 

[blueberries]

I am so glad I didn't tell anyone now......

I am blaming my doctor now. I am filled with so many emotions right now....

I feel like my doctor could have done a lot more knowing my history...

I am def next month going to make him monitor me a whole lot closer.
I can't go thought his again. I haven't seen any blood yet and I know when I do and I feel the pain again I am going to panic really bad. I do not know how I am going handle this.

How do I brace myself for what is about to come. I know this isn't my first time but I feel like I have blocked the others out and like this is new all over again.. I feel weak and nauseated and my breasts hurt... I still feel pregnant and I know that I'm not anymore because of that stupid HCG test uh I hate that test so much

I had to wait a three days for the second test and then an entire weekend which felt like a month for the results just to find out my dream is not coming true again...

Sorry for the rant...

I'm so sorry. I've had two miscarriages, but still I can't imagine going through what you're going through. Has your doctor done any blood tests on you to see what might be causing your miscarriages? My doctor just did several of them on me last week to see if there might be some underlying problem, so that way she can take better care of me during my current pregnancy in case there is something that is wrong. I get the results back tomorrow. If this is an option for you and hasn't been done yet, maybe you can see about it.

 

[Kaylattc]

Thanks and sorry for your to..

I go tomorrow to the doctor...

 

[blueberries]

Thanks and sorry for your to..

I go tomorrow to the doctor...

Thank you. I hope you get some answers tomorrow.