Hi, I'm CD 2 today. I was on the nuvaring and stopped early October. I was pretty convinced that Dec was my month, as we BDd every other day from the end of my period until an entire week after ovulation, but my car got stolen right around ovulation, and I was so stressed out that I think it affected me and we didn't get pregnant that month. I was so bummed that I couldn't get myself to temp, check cm, or any of that for the month of Jan, and we certainly didn't BD very much, so it wasn't I surprise that I got AF yesterday.
DH is getting really excited though, and he is starting to pull out all the stops. He went out and bought me preseed and soft cups, and is aiming to BD every day from the end of my period to a week after ovulation, but I know it can take a lot out of a guy to go that often, so I totally understand if it doesn't work out that way. If we don't get preg in Feb, we are going to take the month of March off to avoid having a Christmas baby - my grandmas birthday was the day after Christmas and she hated it her whole life.