firstbaby25 (we seem to be talking so often can I use your real name ? Lol) - Yea I did an OPK yesterday and day before, both very very very faint lines after like 25 mins (it says to give them 30 mins) so I am classing them as negative. I am going to test again tomorrow and then every other day (cos even the IC OPK's can be quite expensive if you're a POAS addict like me lol) and then I will know if I missed my surge. Yeah I have seen the pics of the cervix's, but it's hard to know (and by the looks of them sometimes I wouldn't want to know) what they feel like.
magicvw - here is my fertility friend link - https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/32104a Not sure if it will work or not, am useless with computers (despite OH being a computer scientist). But on my calender it says judging by cervix, I am most fertile ! I will deffo try the water thing you said, thanks =D No I don't check my cervix at the same time everyday, should I ? I just tend to check it when I'm in the shower really !