Hi I'm new here,I had a loss in may at 10 weeks. My cervix was always high,closed and firm. Everything I've read says it should go soft during pregnacy? I have 2 live children but have never had a vaginal delivery. Again this pregnacy in 6 weeks and my cervix is high,cloved and hard. Why isn't it soft? Very concerned this pregnacy will have the same outcome as the last.