Chemical pregnancy and soo many ?s

[tara515]

I am so unsure of what happened, how and why, but i guess i will never know the answers to those ?s..but i want to move forward now, I lost my pregnancy the day after my grandfathers funeral and i was only about 5 weeks, i really wanted the baby. I have to admit i was so distraught over my grandfather that the miscarriage wasn't the worst thing that was happining in that moment.. Anyway, i was in a lot of pain, (mostly back ache) i took a percocet and it did nothing to ease the pain..(i am very sensitive to pain killers i was VERY surprised that i was still hurting) ..i only bled for 24 hours (is this normal) and this is TMI and i am very embarassed even writing this but i never had blood on a pad..just in the toilet..it was a very dark color when it was in the toilet but when i wiped had an orange color...
(why would that be?) Also since im not bleeding is it ok for hubby and i to return to our normal activies, i really want to start trying again..and does the miscarriage count as my LMP..thanks ladies..i don't know what i would do without this forum..i feel like since i was so early i don't belong here but i have so many questions.

 

[Mid.night]

Hi Tara,

I'm really sorry for the loss of your grandfather and pregnancy

The general consensus is that you can resume normal activities as long as you aren't bleeding, and you feel ready. My first miscarriage was just over 5 weeks and I had a very very heavy bleeding which was more like clotting and tissue than like a normal period.
Have you been to the doctors? They may want to check you out as you haven't bled very much to make sure all the tissue is passed.

You can start trying straight away but your miscarriage doesn't count as your last period so it may be more difficult to date the pregnancy but won't cause any problems for you or the pregnancy.

Wishing you all the best for the future.

 

[RoxyHotSpit]

I am so unsure of what happened, how and why, but i guess i will never know the answers to those ?s..but i want to move forward now, I lost my pregnancy the day after my grandfathers funeral and i was only about 5 weeks, i really wanted the baby. I have to admit i was so distraught over my grandfather that the miscarriage wasn't the worst thing that was happining in that moment.. Anyway, i was in a lot of pain, (mostly back ache) i took a percocet and it did nothing to ease the pain..(i am very sensitive to pain killers i was VERY surprised that i was still hurting) ..i only bled for 24 hours (is this normal) and this is TMI and i am very embarassed even writing this but i never had blood on a pad..just in the toilet..it was a very dark color when it was in the toilet but when i wiped had an orange color...
(why would that be?) Also since im not bleeding is it ok for hubby and i to return to our normal activies, i really want to start trying again..and does the miscarriage count as my LMP..thanks ladies..i don't know what i would do without this forum..i feel like since i was so early i don't belong here but i have so many questions.

I had a miscarriage aug.26th and ovulated 16 days later. So i seen that as my m/c and period since i did ovulate and right on track. I dont get my period every 28 days or what not. I knew because i was using opks. I am now prego again. Right after my m/c.. I'm hoping that this one sticks =) .. I wish you the bestest luck! You can go ahead and give it another try.

 

[Mom2mmcjg]

Sounds like you need to head to the doc. With my MC I bled for a week. 24 hours only in the toilet doesn't sound right to me. Get checked out.