. I wanted to ask the same question but I see it was already asked so I'm just trying to make sure I understand some of the answers. so if you let LO sit for 45 minutes at a time, is this for all snacks and meals? that would be around 4 hours in the high chair a day. I don't mind that my toddler eats slowly but honestly it makes me want to skip a snack or something because sometimes I feel like she's spent most the day in her chair between napping, bath etc? what am I missing. anyone else feel like this?