We use bamboo terry for bum, and microfibre for face/hands. The face wipes go in with the normal wash, and the bum wipes go in their own load (the intensive anti-stain programme) with non-bio detergent and a couple of capfuls of dettol laundry disinfectant.
We store clean ones dry and just wet with tap water as needed (ones for childminder sent freshly wetted and wrung out daily), and dirties are stored just damp in a plastic box, and I wash them once a week. I know some people have had problems with mould from doing that, but I never have

You can get an essential oil blend to soak the clean and dirty ones in, but I'm lazy...I did that for a couple of weeks and then stopped.
We too use disposable nappies, but found disposable wipes a total pain, and we're so glad we switched...only wish we'd done it sooner! Our friends and childminder think we're crazy, but who cares

I'd like to cloth-bum #2 when the time comes, but I'm not sure DH would go for it, and not sure I could cope with the extra laundry, not with 2 kids! Anyway, I digress, I hope that was useful
