When i was about to get my first scan, on tv, they were saying its dangerous to have the baby sleep with you. It was ad that it is the same thing like your baby sleeping with a knife (which i believe is totally irrelevent by the way?) It had a statistic where a number of babies died last year from sleeping in the family bed. Meaning you could roll on top of the baby or the baby could get stuck in the headboard. Its so sad to even think of the poor baby stuggling for its life & you can't hear it because your dead asleep. A man whos a pediatrician and he wrote a book said this is NOT true, it is rules to co-sleeping. Who wants to sleep in a cold dark room away from thier mommy? I WANT to sleep with my baby! Who believe its safe? Who doesn't believe it's safe?