Anyone collecting baby things already? Being a single mom, I've already got a lot of help, or promise of help from friends and colleagues. My best friend gave me her crib and change table for free! Everyone at work is telling me about how much stuff they've got in their basements from their LO's. I had a xmas party for the ladies at work and they saw my crib. Those I hadn't told of my plans yet obviously quickly found out that night (I don't mind - my life's an open book). Here's my dilemma... one of the ladies got really excited about giving me bedding for the crib. She has a son. The bedding sounds really nice (for her) but it's really not my style at all. It's got Noah's Ark characters on it. For me, I am not attracted to anything that has to do with characters of any type. I've always been against any style that screams baby. If I have a girl, I want flowers. If I have a boy, I want something like trees and kites and stuff like that. I've just never ever been into cartoons and such. I feel like I can't say no to this woman, because I am single and shouldn't bite the hand that feeds me, but on the other hand... my god... what if I have a girl and I've got this Noah's Ark bedding that's not even girlie at all??? Not sure what to do!