Come on ladies!! Need help!

[QueenMom]

Alright my temps are still up, my cervix is rising higher everyday and it as opening and now closing. I am 99.9% positive of the day i ovulated and am 13 dpo today. Af should start tomorrow but I have no signs of af. Took a test a few hours ago on a 4 hour hold and it was an uncertain negative with a frer, and i refuse to look at it again since it has been a while. What are the odds of getting a vvfl at 14 dpo? I am so confused. everything points to pregnancy except my pregnancy tests? Needing similar stories, help. Anything. I know nothing is certain until af shows but :-/ I am dying lol. Our chances this month are low, but it just feels different. Alright I'm done.

 

[familygirl30]

With my son I didn't get my Bfp until 16 dpo so hopefully still time for u

 

[QueenMom]

Thank you for the reply. As of now still no af. Once again a questionable frer, but darker? It doesn't seem to have color. I am hoping that af will not come and I will be one of those ladies that needs to be farther along. And all of the stuff I read about a boy. Assuming I implanted when my temp dropped and I started off with a HCG of 1 then theoretically I may only have 4-8 miu of HCG. Assuming it only doubles every other day, ect.. According to my temps and the drop I had that can actually be counted as a drop, was 5 days ago at 9 dpo. Take into consideration the starting with a 1 and doubling every other day and you got roughly 4-8 miu HCG. So I know I am not out till AF shows (if) and since my cycles are off I guess I am not exactly late until Thursday. Although I expected her today because of the last couple months. IDK going crazy here lol. At that point where I would rather her just come if she is going too.

 

[QueenMom]

Well now I just did my cervix check and its High med and med open. I'm so damn confused. I did a hcg calculator and i should have a pos on thurs if no af. I'll update for anyone who may come across this in the future... TTC is hard, gotta keep pushing threw. Also I will not be testing early ever again. This is gut wrenching.

 

[familygirl30]

Fingers crossed for you and I hope af stays away for u! It's awful when our body plays tricks on us!

 

[QueenMom]

Thank you, FX and baby dust to all the ladies out there trying. Whether it be the first or the 10th baby, it isn't any less stressful!